There have been several times, I have notice that people have unconscious insecure characteristic, don't get me wrong, am not perfect, these negative trait I posses myself to, I just think that some people, carry a higher strength of insecurity than others. Some of the bad characteristic that I recognize, while interacting with different associates. are the following, constant bad language, excessive defensiveness, and materialistic attachment.
They say communication is the key, but there have been times, where I have had conversations and arguments, with certain people and I recognize that these people wasn't well spoken, but they only knew how to express themselves in a blunt way, this way of expression was done by using dirty words, to create there inside emotions. This snappy way of expression is one of the signs of insecurity, people that uses abusive words to express themselves all the time, are really hiding something behind there abusive language. However excessive defensiveness is a negative trait that I notice that I posses, but though out time, I have come to clean up this negative trait. I once didn't like to listen to other people constructive advice,which was my way of hiding my trust in peoples advisement, I only had faith in my way of doing things, so other peoples advice wasn't something I consider taking. Yet being materialistic is a trait that I identified while watching my dad character, this man will do almost anything to maintain his reputation, he is a person that thinks, material things gives him power in society, and makes him more superior than other people.
Many people in todays world aren't aware that they have insecurities, which makes people maintain there insecure habits. I always have said,a true love one, will always tell you what you need to hear, instead of telling you what you want to hear. I think, its hard to drop a bad habit, that has been apart of a person's normal behavior for so long, that individual has to accept and recognize that they have insecure ways, and gradually change them.
They say communication is the key, but there have been times, where I have had conversations and arguments, with certain people and I recognize that these people wasn't well spoken, but they only knew how to express themselves in a blunt way, this way of expression was done by using dirty words, to create there inside emotions. This snappy way of expression is one of the signs of insecurity, people that uses abusive words to express themselves all the time, are really hiding something behind there abusive language. However excessive defensiveness is a negative trait that I notice that I posses, but though out time, I have come to clean up this negative trait. I once didn't like to listen to other people constructive advice,which was my way of hiding my trust in peoples advisement, I only had faith in my way of doing things, so other peoples advice wasn't something I consider taking. Yet being materialistic is a trait that I identified while watching my dad character, this man will do almost anything to maintain his reputation, he is a person that thinks, material things gives him power in society, and makes him more superior than other people.
Many people in todays world aren't aware that they have insecurities, which makes people maintain there insecure habits. I always have said,a true love one, will always tell you what you need to hear, instead of telling you what you want to hear. I think, its hard to drop a bad habit, that has been apart of a person's normal behavior for so long, that individual has to accept and recognize that they have insecure ways, and gradually change them.
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