The lesson that I learned from this incident, is that blood is thicker than water, and that you should appreciate your family members, while they are here, and to never put to much trust into your friends, because friends come a dime dozen, but a love one comes once in a lifetime. My outlook on life has change so much, I didn't judge people before this incident happen, but now I do, I feel like its better to be safe than sorry.
My message for my viewer, is not telling you to have the same perspective as me, am just suggesting that you should keep a close eye on your friends, and never put your friends before your family, because family are going to be in your life though the bad and the good, but friends are like material objects they last temporarily. We all have different life experience with people, so don't take my message the wrong way, your experience with your friends could be different from mine, am just implying to you, to take precaution on you friends, and don't underestimate them.